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Ten years

I noticed today that my 23rd birthday is in a week. I began writing online when I was 13. It was a way to vent insecurities, anger, and other feelings I had toward people in my life. From an early age, the internet functioned not just as an interactive library but also as a way to prove that I am not alone in my thoughts, hobbies, and interests — to counter how I have felt in my offline, “real life.”

My early life experiences gave me a certain maturity, self-reliance, and critical thought process that I didn’t see reflected in the majority of my peers until at least high school. There weren’t many (if any) people my own age to bounce my thoughts off of and be understood. Even now, I’ll have a good experience and marvel at how nice it feels to be grokked.

Within the past ten years the internet grown from being a novelty to becoming a necessity. All of the cringe-worthy writing from my early teenage years were scattered across multiple sites which no longer exist. Twitter has replaced my original outlets for venting, and has become a place to throw my inner monologue and all the profanity that comes with it, in 140 characters or less.

I grew up with the pink ribbons and the races. One of my earliest memories involves going to Race for the Cure and checking out vendor booths. Mimicking my older relatives, I took a turn squeezing what years later I realized was a prosthetic breast, to be placed in a bra after a mastectomy.

Komen ingrained themselves deeply into the breast cancer world. They are synonymous with the pink ribbon and breast cancer itself. They surely realized that when a loved one is affected, you will do anything if you think it will help stop their pain. And when it just wasn’t meant to be, you will do anything to make sure it doesn’t happen to anyone else. All they needed to do was create a community, make it uplifting and valuable to participants, sell them pink trinkets… and profit.

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Weary of Pink

SnuggieIf you left your house during last month, you likely saw products emblazoned with pink ribbons grace the shelves of grocery and retail outlets. You turned on the TV and saw NFL teams playing in pink shoes and socks. October has been designated “breast cancer awareness month,” but selling pink merchandise under the guise of awareness amounts to little else than being a subtle way of using sex to sell and to get money from well-meaning consumers.

One day in early October, I walked through the Mall of America and was barraged by pink. It was impossible to escape. Nearly every store was selling something specifically for breast cancer awareness. Later that same day, I stopped at a Walgreens location and discovered that there was even a pink Snuggie.

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I have been without access to my phone’s address book and other data functions since last Friday. Such outages aren’t unheard of, but have never lasted longer than a day in the past. In the meantime, I finally got a new contract with Android-powered phone and rumors circulated that service would be back soon. I waited for my contacts to become available so I could transfer them to my new phone, and then I could ditch the Sidekick and let the prepaid account fade away.

Today, T-Mobile finally admitted that all of our data is gone:

Regrettably, based on Microsoft/Danger’s latest recovery assessment of their systems, we must now inform you that personal information stored on your device – such as contacts, calendar entries, to-do lists or photos – that is no longer on your Sidekick almost certainly has been lost as a result of a server failure at Microsoft/Danger.

(The way it works is that while your information is on your phone, it’s not really stored there, it’s in the cloud. You sign-in to your account and the phone downloads your contacts. You can replace your phone without having to worry about contacts because they are stored in the cloud. However, if something happens to the cloud, you’re screwed.)

Too bad there’s probably something in fine print somewhere that prevents anyone from being sued over this.

"The Hypaethral Temple, Philae" by Francis Frith, 1857

"The Hypaethral Temple, Philae" by Francis Frith, 1857

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